Friday, January 15, 2010

My husband likes to get pedicures...i mean he really loves going to the salon for this. Should i be worried?

There is more. He likes me to s1rap on. he said he has a feminine side. However, on the surface he is very manly and loves women. I am just wondering if maybe he has some underlying femininity?





What do you think?My husband likes to get pedicures...i mean he really loves going to the salon for this. Should i be worried?
hey! this is very normal! my fiance gets manicure and pedicures with me- some men who are very confident in their sexuality and are not afraid of 'gay behavior' because they're so confident in the manliness like to get pampered! i mean, who doesnt? the only men who don;t are men who are afraid of it. instead of judging him, explore it with him- go get manis %26amp; pedis together, get massages, etc. its really really fun!My husband likes to get pedicures...i mean he really loves going to the salon for this. Should i be worried?
People on this forum seem to associate Anal Sex with being Gay. Like they have a lot of choices in sex. So the prostrate is very sensitive and a lot like the female G-Spot. Stimulating it will give you the most intense O that you can imagine. That doesn't make people gay in my mind. Just cus they like great sex. If you haven't done it you don't know and you will say it is gay. He does have a feminine side and likes to be dominated. Does not mean he is gay. What matters is how you feel about it. If you are comfortable with this you could have a lot of fun. Most women that try this feel a great sense of empowerment and even though it feels awkward at first really learn to like it and want it for themselves. Dress him up and have him clean house for you. Have him wait on you and punish him if he doesn't do it the way you like.
He is probably bi-sexual. I have a lot of gay friends who have on going sex relationships with bi-sexual married men whose wives and children have no idea what daddy/hubby does when he gets the chance to. You need to ask yourself whether you want to be with a bi-sexual man. Also, is he willing to commit to you or does he get sex on the side from men? Don't blind yourself to the signs; get to the bottom of what is going on with him! All the best,
Yes, he does have some undelying something. And it sounds like you love thim and will go along.





That is all it is...he is a man...and he loves women in general and you in particular. But his way of making love sometimes is different. Nothing more.





You've heard of dominants and submissives and all types. Well his type is one who likes feeling a bit girly. No big deal Just the way he is.





So take it and use it to make him happy and make him bond closer to you. So give him a big night. Ship the kids off. Maybe you have him take a bath and do his nails...maybe even girlly him up a bit. And you could dress a bit many. And then enjoy the role switch. It can be fun for you...he'll be happy as can be...and the next day you two go back to your real life but with a smile from a good lnight of fantasy loving.





BC
I hate ';lure'; questions...





You begin with something fairly innocent: Pedicures, which aren't gay, per se; but then you smack us in the face, figuratively, with the str@p on...





I'm never one to judge, but I think a lot of people believe the kinsey scale is a valid expression of human sexuality (regardless that the scale was determined from male imprisoned criminals) and he might be on the ';I like it in the rear'; part of that scale...





Good luck, bi the way!
lol its up to you, if you're comfortable with it then it's fine. Just because he does stuff like this doesn't mean he's gay, it could, but it probably doesn't. I think it's fine, you can probably see past that anyway, because you love him and stuff. :)
Theres absolutely nothing wrong with that. Alot of men have some femininity in them. It doesnt mean he's gay. If he wants you to **** him in the *** with strap on then he has some gay in him for real.
HAHA!!! No offense but thats GAY! Peds are suppose to be for Girls ONLY....So ya you should be worried...he sounds Bisexual...
I think he likes the shlongs if ya know what i mean
I think as long as you two can keep communicating so well things will be fine.
If he has a feminine side, he's bi.
worry
well if your willing to strap one on and give it to him then you should see if he'd be interested in the real deal.
He has a gay side
maybe he swings both ways
Kiss her...um him goodbye....

1 comment:

  1. Pedicures for men are not out of the ordinary, many men enjoy this as do women. Some men even like to have their nails polished because it looks good.
    Regarding his desire for anal sex, as long as he likes it with you then you're fine. It's just another exploration of his sexuality and it's actually a good sign that he's open-minded and interested in different means and positions of enjoying this with you.
    Most men have a feminine side but are afraid to express it due to society's limitations placed on them. If you and he can enjoy this together, it means that you are a lucky woman to have a guy who can open up to you and not feel threatened.

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